Gifting for birthday parties can be a real head-scratcher. From balancing old traditions and etiquette to embracing new trends that value experiences over material items, and even considering the environmental impact of gift-giving, parents have a lot to think about. So, what's a parent supposed to do?

Picture this: You’re throwing a birthday bash, and you decide to write "no gifts" on the invite. Simple, right? Not always. Some parents take it to mean, "Seriously, don’t bring a gift." Others think, "Maybe I should bring a little something, just in case." And then there’s the classic, "But I feel weird showing up empty-handed!"

If you're one of those parents who can't bear to arrive gift-less, you're not alone. Many feel that a small gift is a polite way to say "Thanks for having us!" and "Happy Birthday!" Even if gifting isn’t their primary love language, bringing a gift can be a way to acknowledge the effort and expense of hosting a party.

On the flip side, some parents truly prefer a no-gift policy. They might feel their child doesn’t need more toys, or they want to avoid the clutter and environmental impact of unwanted gifts.

So, what’s the solution? How about suggesting alternatives to traditional gifts? Instead of toys, you can suggest books or experiences. Experiences, such as tickets to a local event or a fun activity, create lasting memories and reduce the pile-up of stuff. Including these options in a wish list can make guests feel more comfortable and help them choose a gift that fits your preferences.

Feel weird asking for specific gifts? Don’t! Over 70% of parents we surveyed said they didn’t mind getting a wish list. It takes the guesswork out of gift-giving and ensures the birthday kid gets something they’ll love. 

Feeling charitable? Another fun option is to request donations to a favorite charity instead of gifts. This way, you’re celebrating the big day and doing good at the same time. One of our favorite charities is Pop Up Birthday, your guests’ donations can go towards party supplies to celebrate a birthday for a child in foster care.

Ultimately, when it comes to gifting, the best approach is to do what feels right for you and your family. Whether you prefer to receive gifts, suggest alternative options, or request no gifts at all, clear communication with your guests can help alleviate any confusion or discomfort.

Next time you throw a party, consider providing your guests with a wish list through Partydip. This can help them avoid any awkwardness and ensure that their gift aligns with your preferences. If you prefer a party with no gifts, consider registering for experiences or suggesting charitable donations instead.

So, what do you think about gifts versus no gifts? We’d love to hear your thoughts!